Stages and Caves

There is something within each of us that longs to be seen, known, valued, and significant. And it’s not surprising, as we were created for relationship, purpose, and meaningful contribution. But there is a subtle temptation to seek our significance in the wrong places—to measure our worth by our accomplishments, our visibility, our influence, or the recognition we receive from others.

We may find ourselves striving to be noticed, competing for the spotlight, or quietly wondering, How am I being seen? Am I making a difference? Does anyone notice?

Perhaps this is why we need the cave as much as we need the stage. The stage is where we are seen by others. It is where our gifts are exercised and our leadership becomes visible. But the cave is where we allow ourselves to be seen and known by God.

The cave is the hidden place of prayer, silence, Scripture, solitude, and honest reflection. And often, it is there—in those quiet and unseen places—that God does his deepest work within us.

The invitation is not to abandon meaningful work, leadership, or holy ambition. It is to allow God to purify our motives so that our ambition becomes sacred rather than selfish. When we know we are already seen and loved by God, we no longer have to spend our lives trying to be seen by everyone else. Our identity is not something we have to prove. Our significance is not something we have to earn.

So today, slow down long enough to notice where you may be striving for recognition or validation. Bring that desire honestly into the presence of God.

Step into the cave. Let yourself be known. Let yourself be loved. And from that place of belovedness, may God transform our ambition into something holy, selfless, and sacrificial—so that when we return to the stage, we are no longer there to prove our worth, but to offer our lives as a gift. The stage is where others see us. The cave is where we remember that God already does.

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Steve Macchia

Founder & President

The Rev. Dr. Stephen A. Macchia is founder and president of Leadership Transformations, Inc. (LTI), a ministry serving the spiritual formation, discernment, and renewal of leaders and learners since 2003. For more than 20 years he was the Director of the Pierce Center for Disciple-Building at Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, where he continues to serve as an adjunct faculty member in the Doctor of Ministry Program. From 1989-2003 he was the president of Vision New England, the largest regional church renewal association in the country. Earlier in his ministry life, Steve was a member of the pastoral staff of Grace Chapel in Lexington, Massachusetts for 11 years. He is the author or co-author of 17 books,  including Praying the Parables of Jesus (NavPress/Tyndale), The Discerning Life (Zondervan Reflective), and Crafting a Rule of Life, Becoming A Healthy Church (LTI), and Broken and Whole (IVP).  He and his wife Ruth live in the Boston (MA) area and are the proud parents of two married children and grandparents to four adorable grandchildren. Steve’s personal website is www.SteveMacchia.com.

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Mitzi Mak

Selah-West Faculty & Emmaus Faculty

Mitzi started her professional life as a high school social studies teacher. She and her husband Jerry then served cross-culturally for ten+ years, living abroad first in India and then Kurdistan, N. Iraq. In addition to being a Spiritual Director, she now serves as a Formation and Care pastor in her local church in Houston, TX. She has graduated from LTI’s Selah Spiritual Direction training as well as LTI’s Emmaus Formational Leadership Program.

Mitzi enjoys engaging conversation, reading fiction, doing jigsaw/crossword puzzles, ocean gazing and exploring the world with Jerry through food and travel.

God has two main callings in Mitzi’s life: to care for those who care for others and to be a guide in helping others have a healthy relationship with the Trinity – recognizing God’s loving presence and activity in their lives and how to faithfully respond.

“Selah was a transformative experience for me – allowing the contemplative within to emerge and to beautifully co-exist with my extraverted personality.“